No one is impeccable – everyone happens from time to time to make mistakes, but some easily rise after falls and go further, while others are left alone with a feeling of guilt (and this is a bad fellow traveler for a further trip). If you are from the second category, try not to scold yourself for the next thoughts and actions.
So, do not judge yourself for the fact that you.
1. … sometimes come to false conclusions and get fond of “delusional ideas”. It’s normal to allow yourself to be impulsive from time to time, build air castles and build Napoleonic plans that are not destined to come true, the main thing is to be able to return yourself from heaven to earth in time.
2. … speak when you should listen. Here, again, it is important to notice it in time, stop and, not drooping yourself, let the interlocutor speak out.
3. … don’t care about yourself as it should. Many of us happened at least sometimes to “bring ourselves”, “kill” at work or even to expose our health or life at risk. Do not do it, but also scold yourself.
4. … sometimes forget to use deodorant. It is at least sometimes happening with most of this, so it’s okay – the rest will survive it.
5. … you get into trouble. This is also with everyone, so just apologize.
6. … take over more than you can. This is one of the ways to understand your own boundaries and limits of their capabilities.
7. … once broke someone’s heart. In a sense, this is inevitable: “We choose, choose us”, and reciprocate everyone who likes us is simply impossible.
8. … sometimes “explode”. We are all people, and only units manage to constantly control ourselves (and, by the way, many experts believe that this is not the most healthy tactics).
9. … condemned others instead of accepting. Do not scold yourself for this, but try to remember such cases and in the future be more open.
10. … forget that taking care of yourself is as important as others. You deserve attention, care and love – keep it in your head for the future.
eleven. … they brought others. If it’s not too late, find out how you can fix everything, and take specific measures
. If it’s too late, the lesson and try not to repeat the mistakes.
12. … sometimes you refuse others. You cannot have time to do everything always, and it is better to immediately abandon part of the duties.
13. … before gossip. Everyone sometimes does it, so this is not the end of the world. Just decide for yourself which topics are not ready to discuss, and try to adhere to this rule.